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The love of my life.
Yall, he is a mess. We all call him “drama Dustin”.
But….funny. Genuinely the most loving, caring, servant heart of a human. Ever.
How a man can be so much work yet make me feel so loved, cared for, protected and valued is an art all in itself.
Keeps me on my toes. But, worth every minute.
Love you babe. 🩵
One thing you need to know….Dustin will always be Dustin. He is the one. The only. Forever and always.
Everyone loves Dustin. Bc he is and always will be the GOAT.
Don’t forget that. ✌🏼
Let Fathers Day weekend commence!
P.S. Harper loved edamame and dumplings. I love that this girl tries everything with me. And no matter the spicy sauce….she is spicy. 🌶️
Art day with Coco and her aunt Teanie and Taymoo. Drew all her favorite people and of course she had to put Coco next to Harper.
Then we painted pink weenie dogs, hand prints and rainbow ties, and sunflowers.
It’s been a day of smiles, laughs, creativity and bonding. Best days are days spent with family. 🌈❤️
No one has to understand your journey.
It’s for God and you. And it matters. You matter. Your truth matters. Your story matters. Your life matters.
Keep shining. ✨
Some days I wasn’t sure I would ever find this. Some days I wondered if I was too far gone.
Getting married is easy. Divorce will wreck you.
But multiple times just numbs you.
I actually had to work harder at staying married than divorcing. Once you have divorced, all the what Ifs, the unknowns, the fear all leaves you.
In fact, you become more confident in you. I knew I could count on me. I saw what I was capable of.
Would I ever be able to have a normal relationship. Was I capable? Do I deserve it?
Dustin and I have no kids together, we are independently financially stable, we don’t owe each other anything. We choose this.
We have had to learn how to love after loss. Over come insecurities, distrust, wounds and self protection.
Add some blended families, some businesses and very different upbringings and boy did we have a lot to talk about.
But there is hope. You don’t have to settle. You don’t have to live in fear.
But you do have to be vulnerable.
You have to be so stripped down to not fear rejection that you can let someone love you all while knowing you don’t need them to. You already know what you’re capable of. You know you can be content with just you.
So you choose that partnership. It’s no longer what if they hurt me or leave me, it’s what if I find true peace, joy and happiness.
Its appreciating someone and what you have after all the wrong turns and missteps.
And boy am I glad I took that chance.
Standing before him, as I was, as he was. Unpacking all our baggage little by little.
And now I forgot what being on my own feels like. I can’t recall the hyper independence.
Bc the safety of my husband is the only thing I feel now. 💜
