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Happy Father’s Day to this man.
This Father’s Day is a little extra special for him.
Dustin has put in some serious work this year. Really stepping up to show all of our girls what a leader of a household looks like.
Dustin has always been the fun, funny, jokester, prankster Dad. He is the best listener and emotional support dad. He pays attention to detail and makes these kids feel heard and validated.
Now he can add hard things to the list. Showing our girls that when life gets hard, sideways, or challenging, you dig deep.
You continuously strive to improve, be the best version of yourself, and show up for those that matter the most.
Being the leader of the home comes with great responsibility. Father means more than who you birthed.
It means providing, protection and support. I have never seen someone love his children and mine the way Dustin has. Stepping up and helping me give all our kids the best life.
So this weekend we celebrated him with Golf, Swimming, his pizza, I made a peach cobbler cheesecake and quality time.
Happy Father’s Day! We love you so much. 🩵
Meet “Happy” the Dragon.
If you saw the Free tires I had my husband pick up and wanted to know what we did with them he ya go!
This was quite the family affair and we had so much fun making this for my grand daughter! She loved it and so did all our friends kids.
I sealed the whole thing so we can enjoy her for years to come! I love this new little addition to Argumaniz Acres. 🌞
In January I had a full on melt down.
Crash out.
Laid in the floor of my bathroom naked and afraid. 🤣🤦🏼♀️
No, but for real. I looked at my husband and said “I can’t live like this anymore”.
So much chaos. That I refused to show up for anymore.
It was on him to handle. His issues. I was tapping out.
He looked at me and realized I was serious.
He had two choices.
He could have stayed the course or he could level up.
But in true Dustin fashion he rose to the occasion. Started PTSD counseling and held me while I was down until he could lift me up. Lift us back up off that floor.
Took about 3 months and the transformation was incredibly beautiful. Dustin and I have always made a great team but with my past I was hyper independent. He helped as much as I allowed. And when you feel like you have 42 hamsters on your wheel, and one wrong move they all fall, so don’t anybody touch my wheel, don’t anybody touch my hamsters, don’t try to help me, it’s hard for someone to know how to help you.
You don’t have time to teach someone how to help you. You don’t even trust that they can help you and you’re so scared of what will happen if you let go or let anyone help you.
You end up on the bathroom floor.
My husband was totally capable of helping me juggle the hamsters. In fact he was capable of juggling them himself. I was standing in both of our way.
As wives, as mothers, we feel like we have to have it together all the time and if we don’t, we’re a letdown. The world will burn to the ground with out us.
I always trusted my husband. I always knew he was capable. I just couldn’t let go of the control of everything falling apart that I exhausted myself.
Once I allowed myself to sit back, relax understand that everything was gonna work out, God is always in control, I’m not weak for needing a break,not weak for asking for help, Life improved tremendously.
A new level of marriage was unlocked. I didn’t know I could love my husband anymore than I did. In my weakest moment, he became my strength.
The future is becoming less blurry and the mission is becoming crystal clear.
God gives us a husband in his image. He is m