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In January I had a full on melt down.
Crash out.
Laid in the floor of my bathroom naked and afraid. 🤣🤦🏼♀️
No, but for real. I looked at my husband and said “I can’t live like this anymore”.
So much chaos. That I refused to show up for anymore.
It was on him to handle. His issues. I was tapping out.
He looked at me and realized I was serious.
He had two choices.
He could have stayed the course or he could level up.
But in true Dustin fashion he rose to the occasion. Started PTSD counseling and held me while I was down until he could lift me up. Lift us back up off that floor.
Took about 3 months and the transformation was incredibly beautiful. Dustin and I have always made a great team but with my past I was hyper independent. He helped as much as I allowed. And when you feel like you have 42 hamsters on your wheel, and one wrong move they all fall, so don’t anybody touch my wheel, don’t anybody touch my hamsters, don’t try to help me, it’s hard for someone to know how to help you.
You don’t have time to teach someone how to help you. You don’t even trust that they can help you and you’re so scared of what will happen if you let go or let anyone help you.
You end up on the bathroom floor.
My husband was totally capable of helping me juggle the hamsters. In fact he was capable of juggling them himself. I was standing in both of our way.
As wives, as mothers, we feel like we have to have it together all the time and if we don’t, we’re a letdown. The world will burn to the ground with out us.
I always trusted my husband. I always knew he was capable. I just couldn’t let go of the control of everything falling apart that I exhausted myself.
Once I allowed myself to sit back, relax understand that everything was gonna work out, God is always in control, I’m not weak for needing a break,not weak for asking for help, Life improved tremendously.
A new level of marriage was unlocked. I didn’t know I could love my husband anymore than I did. In my weakest moment, he became my strength.
The future is becoming less blurry and the mission is becoming crystal clear.
God gives us a husband in his image. He is m
The love of my life.
Yall, he is a mess. We all call him “drama Dustin”.
But….funny. Genuinely the most loving, caring, servant heart of a human. Ever.
How a man can be so much work yet make me feel so loved, cared for, protected and valued is an art all in itself.
Keeps me on my toes. But, worth every minute.
Love you babe. 🩵
One thing you need to know….Dustin will always be Dustin. He is the one. The only. Forever and always.
Everyone loves Dustin. Bc he is and always will be the GOAT.
Don’t forget that. ✌🏼
Let Fathers Day weekend commence!
P.S. Harper loved edamame and dumplings. I love that this girl tries everything with me. And no matter the spicy sauce….she is spicy. 🌶️
Art day with Coco and her aunt Teanie and Taymoo. Drew all her favorite people and of course she had to put Coco next to Harper.
Then we painted pink weenie dogs, hand prints and rainbow ties, and sunflowers.
It’s been a day of smiles, laughs, creativity and bonding. Best days are days spent with family. 🌈❤️
