Giraffe Tools Grandfalls Pressure Washer

xoxo, Adrianne
We are on Instagram
Please stop telling me to “ignore”. 
I’m 46 years old. I know when to ignore and when I want to say something. Doesn’t mean I always get it right, but I like to error on the side of communicating. 

If I’m addressing something, it’s bc I am tired of ignoring. I know how to ignore. You have no idea how much I do ignore. My family and friends will tell you I have a gold medal in “ignoring”. 

There is a lot I don’t say. So, when I do, either ignore me or support me but I’m not soliciting advice to ignore on my socials. 

This is what I have learned:
1. You think people want the attention? Oh yes, yes they do, but it’s not usually the kind I give them. No one likes to look stupid and that’s exactly what I’m gonna make you look. 
2. Consequences work. When did silence or lack of discipline ever work? People quit when others call them out or they have to stand and deal with their choice. Silence and ignoring just makes it easy on someone who doesn’t have boundaries or is afraid of conflict. I’m not saying there isn’t a time or place, trust me, I know how to pick my battles. 
3. Silence is a free pass for people to speak to or act however they want. I choose to communicate my feelings and boundaries. Can’t say you didn’t know. 
4. Sometimes I want to share with my community and support system for my own mental health. 
5. Sometimes I share bc I want others to know they aren’t alone. 

But one thing you need to know about me, I am not afraid. I will call you out, I’ll show up to the good fight, I will stand up for myself and others, and I will NOT BACK DOWN. 

So if you don’t like that about me, no need to announce your departure, get on with it. But for those who need the support and want to support me, I love you being here. ✌🏼
“Off the Market” themed bridal shower loading………💍💐
@keepyourforkmealprep coming in clutch with the shower catering. I went ahead and tried one with my martini to make sure she wasn’t poisoning my guests. 
Turns out, she knows what she is doing! 

How cute are these rosettes for the shower Tomm? 💍